I discuss the mechanics of willpower and choice in the face of temptation. Basically, #1, in the face of temptation, should you have gotten yourself out of the situation or otherwise avoided it in the first place, or can you now? When Joseph in Egypt found himself in a bad situation with Potiphar’s wife, he “got him out”. He has been described (by Niel A. Maxwell) as having had good legs. So first avoid the situation or get out of it in the first place. Does a certain situation present temptations for you and you know it? Then avoid that situation, if you can.
You don’t have to ever go to the bar. You don’t have to go to that party in the first place. You don’t have to even touch alcohol, or drugs. You might not need to hang around that person. You might not need to use that app, or that website. You don’t have to stay up way late at night with that person or those people. Be smart. Don’t be dumb. Keep yourself out of those situations in the first place.
#2, if you HAVE made some bad choices, or are otherwise struggling with a bad habit, or a resentment that’s not good for you (they’re all not good for you), and you can’t seem to break free, you might need to do like the alcoholics anonymous people do, and acknowledge that you can’t do it without a higher power. There are many traps in life, not just alcoholism or drug addiction or pornography addiction. Maybe we need God’s help with even the “little” things, as well as the “big” things.
So pray for that help. Your deliverance may not be immediate, like it wasn’t for the people of king Limhi, but “That soul who on Jesus hath leaned for repose, I will not, I cannot desert to his foes. That soul, though all hell should endeavor to shake, I’ll never, no never, no never forsake.” God will make a way for your escape, and “though [you] were dead, yet shall [you] live.”